With the evolution of the social networking sites, we have started to
live a second life inside internet, most of us with our true identity,
while some with a different identity. While there are many such popular
networks, let’s focus on the most sought after of them, the
facebook. However the facts would hold true for other similar sites, like
Google +.
A shocking revelation
Just Google it and see how many ‘promising’ matches you get. Type
‘How to hack facebook’ and click search, go ahead and do it. Perhaps it
won’t be a much of a surprise to you, if you’ve already done that
before. I think most of you have, may be actually meaning to hack it, or
just to see the results. Whatever it is, it’s like searching for “how
to rob my neighbor’s house?”
How many of you think about robbing your neighbor’s house, just for
the fun of doing something wrong, something against the heart?
0.0001 percent at the most? May be. (Because there are disordered ones every where)
But when it comes to social networking sites, how many of you crave to spy on your friend’s activities?
Needles to say, 1 out of 3 people at the least, are desperate to find
a way. That is why you come across so many promising solutions, in a
split second, in a single Google search.
Why?
I was curious to know why many people want so much badly to hack
their friend’s, relatives’, facebook accounts, to steal information, to
spy on them. I was curious because I never thought there would be people
who want to peep through neighbor’s window and keep watching their
activities. It seems to me like some kind of mental disorder.
But here, at internet, as it seems, many of them want to do that!
I went through the comment sections, in the so called ‘Hack facebook’
sites, and the majority of the comments are about mistrust between
partners, girl friends suspecting boy friends and vice versa. Some
people have even gone as far as to publish their email addresses, and
the facebook ids of the person they want to hack, and the story behind
their motivation…a big stuff.
May be just fiction, to see if it works, whatever it is how can
people be so mean to fellow humans? What right do they think they have
to control someone else’s wishes, likes? While I do not realize, I think
this may be some kind of personality disorder, or something like that.
Relationships mean trust.
If the partners suspect about each other, how long would that
relationship go before it ends up. Can you love someone if you don’t
trust him or her? Relationships are all about the trust. When you have
lost your faith, they will break, very easily. Social networking sites
are here to strengthen existing friendships and to make new ones. They
are not here to demolish and bring down friendships. They connect people
who we like, love, care about, and let’s us share our things. That is
the basic theme behind these sites.
I just imagined what my friend can do if he hacked my facebook account.
Here is my list
- He can read my messages. inbox and my replies( He would like that, and I won’t)
- He can chat with my other friends, pretending to be myself (Surely I won’t like that too.)
- He can post status updates, comment, pretending to be myself ( I think I won’t like that either)
- He can play flash games( I don’t protest)
You can add a lot of stuff to the above list, but I tried to be
simple. So what’s our primary purpose of hacking facebook? I think most
of the guys who are desperate to find about their girl friend, or ex
girlfriend would prefer first three options in my list.
Did I like it when it happens to me? No. I would hate that idea. So
would others like it if I try to access theirs with out permission? I
think I know the answer. Sure I do. Question is, do many disordered guys
out there waiting desperately know the answer? I think they don’t.
Respect others rights. They have a right to their privacy as much as you do.
Any positive results at all?
No. You get nothing positive if you try to, or
actually hack by any mean, in to your friend’s account. The only thing
you will gain is some split second’s satisfaction in exchange of your
friendship.
Remember: Even if your friendship could continue, thereafter it won’t
be the same; it won’t have the same spirit of happiness and life it
used to have.
Humans can’t read minds for a reason.
Ever wondered why? We can love, smile, feel others’ emotions, help
them, assure them, but we can’t know how they really feel, what they
really think no matter how much closer they are to our heart. Is it some
kind of mistake during the evolution? I don’t think so. There must have
been a very unique reason! So why should we try to break it? It would
be a huge mess, if we could listen to others thoughts, I can’t imagine
it. So why should we try to do something similar here on facebook?
Curiosity should have limits, at least with regard to society!
Something about these helping hand websites
Did you ever have the feeling, why any one strange would so kindly
offer his help to steal your friend’s information for you? I think you
have lived enough in this world to know the answer for that question.
Be warned
- Your very own facebook account will get hacked instead of your friend’s, through these ‘Best Offer ever’ software
- Your PC would be attacked by numerous malware, viruses and Trojans.
Most of these tools prompt you to turn off your firewall, and virus
guard during installation so you are exposed. And it would cost you a
big deal of money to fix things back to normal.
- You are doing something illegal
- Buying the software will cost you money, and its just a lose, no profit at all
- You will waste your time in vain
Good friends are not easier to find. Same goes with your
partners. Of course we all do mistakes; the best thing is to discuss
them with each other, not spying on them inside a website. Respect their
privacy, protect their rights. Do not get caught in numerous
advertising campaigns prompting you to do something illegal.